The destiny that reading cannot change, how can AAK Hydraulic Valve be lifted from books?

Reading can not change the fate, the books you have read, and others have also read. If you want to change your destiny, you must read more books. It seems a bit conflicting. In fact, this is the same with borrowing money. For example, you can't borrow money from a friend, but if you have no money, you can only borrow from a friend. The core is how you do it and the friend is willing to lend you money. If you want to change your destiny, you must turn the books you have read into an operational knowledge system. For example, AAK hydraulic valve has its own marketing, promotion and sales system. For the same, each seller has a different operating system.

Today let me insist on "being myself", tomorrow let me "adapt to the society", today encourage me to "go out of my comfort zone", and tomorrow let me "accept myself". Who should I listen to?

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